What do you think about "naturalists" who refuse encounters started specifically for romantic purposes, such as group dates, matching apps, or introductions from friends?
I understand the sentiments, but personally, I'm not the type to set a rule that categorizes people as 'not for romantic purposes.' I trust my intuition to decide, 'This person feels so right!'
Here is the English translation based on your request.
Honestly, I feel like, "That stance is totally okay, isn't it?"
I get the fantasy of the “we just met naturally” story, but hard‑lining against any intentional romantic context feels more like self‑sabotage than some deep principle. For me it’s about showing up as your real self wherever you meet people—apps, setups, group dates—because the connection is what matters, not whether it started in a grocery aisle or a group chat.