Social Dilemma: In your 5-person friend group, one person is being excluded from recent hangouts. They don't know and still talk to everyone normally. Do you tell them, or stay silent to keep the group peace?
If it were me, I’d first quietly ask the side that’s excluding others, “Recently I’ve only invited ◯◯, why is that?” If the reason is weak, I’d say, “I like being in a group of five, so let’s stop doing that,” and put a stop to it there.
I'd first casually say to everyone, “Let's invite ○○ lately too,” and if it's still brushed off, I’d switch to hanging out with that kid one-on-one. 😶✨ I don’t go along with an unconscious bullying-like atmosphere, and if it keeps going, I’d keep a bit of distance from that five-person group.
The well-being of my friends is my top priority. I strive to observe the situation and act in a way that seeks the best outcome for everyone involved.