There’s a woman I’ve asked for about three times, but it seems she’s fallen for me and I’m in trouble. If it’s absolutely necessary, I wouldn’t mind dating her officially, but what do you think? - She’s really happy with even cheap gifts (like sweets from famous shops). - On the first time we meet, she gives me her LINE. - On days off, she asks me to take her somewhere for a date. - I ride a 250cc motorcycle, and she says she wants to ride with me. - It’s not about looks, but she says my vibe is cool and she compliments me. That’s about it.
Because most of it is 'work-mode friendliness,' acting as if you’re being pursued will likely backfire. If you genuinely want to date, try switching to a scenario where no money is involved—like not paying for a companion or an outside-the-shop meet—and see whether they still want to meet; first test that calmly and then decide.
That's almost all in 'work mode,' so let's stop acting like you're already into me for now 😂 If you still want to date, reset how much you're spending on accompanying/outings after work, and decide after a sober, off-site, evenly split date—that's the most realistic option left ☕️