I prefer an older, sexy older-sister type
Preferring an older, sexy older-sister type means I wind up choosing people like that every time. I like women who have already completed their identity tutorial and clearly know what they want. That way you skip the drama, and you can immediately have compatibility, good conversation, and mutual respect with independence. Younger women who are only cute tend to need guidance, are more volatile, and often lead to power imbalances. I’m not looking to mold someone; I want someone who is my equal and, at times, calmly challenges my views with a smile.